I have been in pain the past week. I had an accident and my hip went out-no fun! I did manage to pop it back in. Yesterday when the physical started to subside the emotional kind moved in like a cold front. It involved my daughter-she is ok, but her heart hurts and it will linger for awhile. Her three year relationship ended. We all saw it coming-long distance relationships are difficult. We are doing our best to keep her busy, make her laugh, and let the tears fall.
I am worried though, as we will soon be in the holiday season and this boy will return home. He is a great kid, nice family, but I really hope he lets her be-so she can heal. This morning I actually felt a soccer punch to the gut. It was brief, but strong. This is the third time in my life, I have physically felt another person's pain.
Over in the Garden, Grace introduced us to the artwork of Kathryn Dyche Dechairo.
I am worried though, as we will soon be in the holiday season and this boy will return home. He is a great kid, nice family, but I really hope he lets her be-so she can heal. This morning I actually felt a soccer punch to the gut. It was brief, but strong. This is the third time in my life, I have physically felt another person's pain.
Over in the Garden, Grace introduced us to the artwork of Kathryn Dyche Dechairo.
Artist Kathryn Dyche Dechairo
YOU can view more of her work here! Kathryn's work has also been published in 'The Pulse of Mixed Media' by Seth Apter and the Summer 2012 edition of Artful Blogging.
Tango's Drumbeat
a quick slash
poured salt rains
words stain like
I
N
K
berries
c
r
u
s
h
e
d
taste red's
bitter threads
roll off tongue's sword
cauterize
arteries' hope
stabbing onslaught begins
"what if..."
"if I had..."
"I should have..."
liquid legs
succumb
to brackish river
throbbing pixels mirror tango's drumbeat
ruby lip tar sticks
and bleeds fragile
feathers into life's
fallible dance
© Ellen Wilson
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taste red's
bitter threads
roll off tongue's sword
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a quick slash
poured salt rains
words stain like
I
N
K
berries
c
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s
h
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Sorry to hear you've been in so much pain. It can be hard to suffer through. Love to you and your daughter, hope you are both able to heal. Hugs xoxo
I've felt my children's pain, nothing quite like it, bordering on gruesome. Hold her tightly, love her.
And as for you ... I can't imagine 'popping' a hip back into place, it would mean torture for me as both of mine have been replaced!
Poem is extraordinary .....
xo,
abby
Such a beautiful, emotional poem. Thank you for sharing!
Take care!
And your physical pain. Your daughter's emotional pain. Begins to feel like too much, doesn't it? Like 'way, 'way too much, I know. I do know.
Luv, K
Suzanne-Thank you! It is a process and you are right the emotional pain does consume one's thoughts. Thank you~
Kay-It does! WE have tried to do things out of the norm to keep her distract and busy. Life sure is a roller coaster~ Thank you Kay <3
Mary-Thank you! Yes, long distance can be like a coin toss. "Out of site out of mind" or "Absence make the heart grow fonder"-no one
knows. WE all know pain and it packs a punch~
Yolanda-Thank you! Time does help us heal! She will be busy with Colorguard competitions soon-busy helps! You are sweet~
Abby-Thank you! I hope you are healing too xo
Izy-Thank you! I love Jazz-thank you~ There is so much blue when it comes to the dance of red~
LaTonya-Well said-that word says it all! Thank you~
Susan-Yes, healing is traumatic sometimes~ Thank you~
Hannah-Drama sure makes us see red!
Thank you so much~
Helen-Oh I am sorry!! I am okay-I over did and then had a stumble. I really need to remember I can't be a cycling diva anymore.
Thank you! YOU are right I will do just that~ I am sorry for your pain~
Grace-It is sad and we all know about those bitter red threads~
Thank you Grace for introducing us to Kathyrn! Her art is a gift~
Alex-Thank you! Time out is sometimes what we need and keeping busy~
"Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your cares upon Him, for He cares for you." I Peter 5:6 & 7.
I prayed for you this morning, and I am believing with you for a complete healing of this pain. I send a hug to you over the miles.
I'm so sorry for your daughter's heartache.. That's really tough for a young person.
Your poem speaks to your deep empathy—so hard to witness our children’s hurt. Tincture of time and your love—the balm. My heart goes out to you both.
So sorry to hear about your accident and the pain you are both experiencing.
SO sorry for you physical and emotional pain. It looks like it never ends for us...
It is our fate. But we are strong bulls with a great capacity to love and FEEL.... It hurts, but makes us stronger for the ones we love...
BIG HUGS...